Saturday, June 25, 2016

How do you still have a job?

I you don't already know I am a teacher, now I would love for you to be thinking "So she went to collage and got her degree and did all the things that it means to become a teacher." Yeah, no, I don't have money for collage. I hardly have money for rent. What I did to become a teacher is work at a day care center, this means lesson plans, crazy kids, biting, kicking, hitting, all the things that normal teachers have to go through. Along with a TON of paperwork. I get to see the parents everyday too, and tell them first hand how their "Angel" is doing. This is a challenge at times (I'm rather blunt and need to gain more .... tact when it comes to this) but it is all good.

Now I just got my personal class room set up (YAY ME, I am so excited) I will be taking the 2 year olds which I have done before. (They listen better then the 3's and 4's so I am all good) This is just on time for the "new" teacher. This teacher has a reputation that proceeds her, not in a good way, She has worked for the company for 9 years however she has no degrees (Master Teacher is what we should have but don't need, it gets us more money and a higher rank among teachers) This teacher (let us call her ... Spooker <= I will explain)  has already started to make waves in my little school. There are a few different shifts you can have

6:30 - open, Panda queen
7:00 - Popper
8:00 or 8:30 Directer and Silly momma
9:00 ME
12:00 Tapper

Spooker has demanded Open and my boss's boss gave it to her. with means that she kicked Panda queen off of her shift and you have to puss her back. This doesn't really affect me but it was still really rude. Spooker has also stated that she is the number 2 in the daycare even though Silly momma out ranks her with her degree (unless you have the same one or a better one she is the second in command.) Not to mention that she WILL NOT DO DIAPERS. Which if you work with young kids comes will the job.

Director, my boss, and Silly momma have both worked with her and have warned me to stay away from her be nice but never tell her anything personal because she will use anything to stab you in the back. Spooker will be really mean to kids. If she finds out that a child is scared of something she will chase them with that thing. A child was scared of snakes and she chased him with a rubber one until he was balling and peed his pants. Pushing kids down, belittling them, eating a huge bag of candy and not sharing with them, being mean to kids is her everyday. Not to mention if you even step a toe out of line she will report you to Boss's boss or DHS (they are a pain)

This is just what I heard and I want to make my own conclusions but I will be wary of her. I was warned by two people that had no idea that the other warned me saying the same things. I am going to give it a few weeks (Give her time to show her true self) and we will see what she is really like. I will give you updates of all the crazy things that go down.

(p.s. I have thought about doing a thing, like every week I put up one post of "Secret thoughts of a teacher" where I tell you what runs through my mind working with kids and what they did to make me think it. tell me what you think!)

Sunday, June 19, 2016

Room-mate from HELL.

So I think everyone knows how this one goes, you are looking for a place to live and this Room-mate comes along and they seem to be really nice and funny and all together not what they turn out to be. This has been the living, money sucking hell that Brian and I have to deal with.

A little background for you. About a year ago Brian had to move out of his place because his ex-roomie fucked him over really really bad. 3 months rent bad. So began the looking for a new place. That is when his amazing sister told him about a woman that had been looking for a new room-mate. (No name on her because that could get sticky so we are going to call her Sour Patch, yes I did just look at gum but it fits.) Brian met up with Sour Patch and things where fine. Lease was signed and all was good. Sour Patch had some minor things that he didn't like but the over all was good.

As for her minor things, It was taking gabs at Brian and I because we do not belong to her religion. Always asking if I had gotten knocked up yet, blaming me for messes that she had made and making him clean them up when I supposedly made the mess a few weeks ago and it didn't show up till then. That was the last time that I cooked dinner for her. Sour Patch asked me to put money in since i was over there all the time or she would start charging Brian more. ( I kinda get that but she was really really rude about it) When Brian started spending a lot of time at my place she would complain about that. She even offered him drugs one time, Brian has trouble sleeping so she told him to take one of her pills and said that it would put him right to sleep but it would also kill his sex drive. (he chose to keep having sex.)

One time we had a friend over and because he had no way to get home that night we asked if she was cool with him staying, she said yes. He slept on the couch and all was good. Sour Patch woke up at 4a.m. as always and asked him if he wanted her bed. He was very unsure but she said that she wanted the living room so he took her up on it. In no way did we ask her to at all offer up her room to him. THAT WAS A PERSONAL CHOICE THAT SHE MADE TO HAVE THE LIVING ROOM SO EARLY IN THE MORNING. The reason I am telling you this story is because she tried to use it against Brian.

After a while Brian was staying with me full time but paying half of the rent there and half of the bills that he was not using. This was when Sour patch told us that he needed to have all of his things moved by the 11th because her sister was coming in to town and she was going to use his room as a guest room. This was all the while she still expected him to pay his share of the bills. HAHA NO!!!!! He stills pays the rent so it is still his!

This was text between Sour Patch and (Brian/ I)

Us - Hey it's Brian, my phone died. (we used mine) I'm really not comfortable with anyone staying in my room while I am paying rent. It's still my room even if I am not staying there.

Her - Seriously cause you had a stranger (our friend) stay on the couch and he ended up in my bed. This is my SISTER I feel like this kid of crap comes from Amber Trying to get you out of paying rent. You were asked before you signed the lease if you were sure you didn't want to live with Amber so it is NOT my fault. (It was already signed and we weren't ready for that)

Us - No but I do pay half the rent so half the house is still mine and I didn't ask you to do that you offered it to him because you wanted the living room. And that was one day. I understand that it is your sister but it is still my room and my space.

Her - I will talk to you in person Brian, without your sidekick if that is ever possible. it's still a few weeks away. My sister is in her 60's believe me there is NOTHING in your room that she would be interested in.

Us - I don't think it's really fair, nor kind to bring Amber into this at all. I also find it disrespectful. I don't think she'll steal anything or anything. I don't call anyone a thief without proof. It's really the fact that I pay half of everything, and it will basically be a guest room with my stuff in it. For that fact, they'll be staying there on my dime. I mean, the eleventh through the twenty-eighth is the majority of a month, and I would be paying not only the basic storage of my stuff, but hers as well. I'm not trying to be a dick, financially, it just doesn't feel right to me.

Her - I fucking told you we would only be here a couple days then going up north gone probably ten days. Can't wait to get a roommate who follows through on the help I was promised and never got. I'm done with this discussion tonight.

Us - This isn't worth every one getting aggravated about the situation. I was just expressing my feelings on the matter I wasn't trying to start a fight,so good night.

Note: We never gave her permission to stay in the room. The only thing that we had a problem with was that she wanted to turn Brian's room into a guest room and still have him pay for it. We have no problem with her sister staying there, just not in the room that he has to pay for.

A little bit of a time skip, He has still been paying his rent but because I am Pregnant I told him that he shouldn't pay utilities, he is not the one using them and it is not in the lease that he has to. We need the money to cover my place and the needs for the little one. She text him DEMANDING $265 in utilities and lawn service fees, she even threatened to come to his work (Ashleys furniture, Need something?) and make a big to-do about it. Even threatening to take him to court over the issue. Now this pressed the wrong buttons for Brian. He went to gather his things so that he could put them where they belong and HIS room has been taken by her. She moved into his room and turned her old room into the guest room. To me this says he has no place in that home and no longer has to pay a thing. She also moved his belongings and went as far as to give his bed away all without telling him! I am sorry but even if she never said the words "You are kicked out." Moving all your things to the closet and giving away your bed screams that you no longer have a place there and there for no longer have to pay a thing! He is still up to date on his rent to she had no right to inhabit his room or touch any of the belongings behind the CLOSED door. She didn't even have the right to enter into it.

Tell me your thoughts, what would you do?

Thursday, June 9, 2016

Crazy parents (Not mine thank goodness)

So what MOST parents want is their child's happiness, for them to get what they want out of this life through hard work and smiles. I can't think of anything that I want more in my life then to just SEE my little baby smile and he/she (don't know which yet) is still in my tummy until December.

I have always heard horrible stories of things that parents do or say but this story takes the cake. We are not talking physical abuse that is a different nightmare. For all you parents out there who think their parents are crazy this would be a NIGHTMARE COME TRUE.

Here is a little side note, I will not say any names in this story, so what I am going to do is give them nicknames. If any of them read this they will know but no one else will. I am sure I will get bitched out for this.

Black bunny = Crazy mother of White bunny
White bunny = Amazing
Cute bunny = Little one of White bunny

Why am I using bunnies? I just watched Zootopiea blame me not.

So a while ago White bunny wanted to move and she planned on moving with me, this was until her parents said "If you stay we will buy you a house." I know what you are thinking," Free house? No way she would turn that down!!!" Only the "Free house" was really we are going to rent a house for you and charge you more then we are even paying on it so that we can make $200 to $300 off of  you every month. By the time she realized what a mistake was made it was too late she was locked into a lease with her parents, contract and all.

Now Black bunny is very happy that Cute bunny didn't move across the states but she still wants her. THAT IS RIGHT Black bunny is trying to TAKE Cute bunny from her mother. Now I could see this if White bunny was an unfit mother or if she was doing things wrong but she is not!!! She has been amazing to her little one! Now my thought is WHY would you want to take your daughter's child from her if she is doing everything right!?!?!?!?

Now White bunny has a job and she pays her rent. Black bunny at one point showed up to White bunny's work DEMANDING rent. Then went back to White bunny's house and trashed the place. Along with STEALING.

Fast forward about a Month (maybe)

Black bunny has turned to threatening White bunny. Black bunny has tried to play the "mom" card, how did she even think that was going to work? "I'm your mom you have to do what I say give me Cute bunny"? as if. Then tried to pull the  "I need to take care of my Husband." card like talking Cute bunny would somehow help with that!!! Last but not least she pulled the "I have cancer." card. She does have a tumor but it has yet to be said by a doctor that she has cancer. Not to mention WHY WOULD THAT MEAN THAT WHITE BUNNY SHOULD JUST HAND OVER HER CHILD!!!!! So when all of this failed she said that she would call social services on her. White bunny is an amazing mother who does her best and more for her child. There is nothing that Cute bunny needs or even wants for. White bunny does everything that a loving mother should and more! That is the way she is, she goes above and beyond for that child.

Not to mention that if a social services person where to walk into Black bunny's house she herself would most likely lose her teenager. I have been in that house and it is horrendous. I don't even want to get into that. I am really easy to make puke these days.  Black bunny has even gotten her teenager to make Verbal attacks to White bunny. She has turned him against her when they where really close for a really long time. That was a low blow if i had ever seen one.

One of the huge questions that I had was how do you go about asking your child to GIVE you their child? Apparently it goes "I need her" which says it's more about Black bunny's needs then the needs of Cute bunny. How can anyone be that selfish.

When Black bunny went into White bunny's house she went into her room and took money from her. SHE EVEN SAID THAT SHE TOOK IT!!!!! like "I'm took it and there is nothing you can do about it."  not a quote but it may as well be.

I have been trying to convince White bunny to move here and run away to me for some time, lets hope that she comes over sometime and just never goes.